Showing I Care For My Neighbors
“Teacher, of all the commandments, which is the most important? Jesus replied, “‘You must love the LORD your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the other commandments and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments.’†– Matthew 22:36-40 (NLT)
How are you treating your neighbor? Are you actually doing what the Bible requires? Who is your neighbor? Your neighbor is someone whom you cross paths with on a daily basis. It could be the person who sits next to you at work or the person you buy your coffee from in the morning.
Here are four steps to loving your neighbor.
1) See people as Jesus sees them. In the Bible, a man is robbed, beaten and left for dead on the road side. People rush past without seeing him but a Good Samaritan stops to help. He brings the man to a hotel and pays for his room and board until he gets back from his travels. This person stopped to help another even though it was at great cost to himself. How are we supposed to treat our neighbor? Can we see that we’re not any different than they are? It’s easy to block out other people’s pain and just stay focused on ourselves and our lives. But for God’s grace, we could be the ones in pain needing the help. We can choose to look at our neighbor as a person in our way, messing up our life’s plan or we can see them as God intended us to – people that God put in our path for us to help. Who in your life needs to be seen by you? Think about who’s in your path that may need you. God put them there for a reason. We all know the world is broken but it’s easy to block it out and not see it. You have to open your eyes and see. You have to see before you can help.
2) Show genuine interest. We have become expert fakers in society. We never tell each other how we really feel or how things really affect us. Show your neighbor that you care. Get to know them and, as you’re doing it, show interest in them. It honors the other person to give them your attention and interest.
3) Be alert to the needs of others. In today’s society, it seems we don’t care about others very much. We weigh the cost of getting involved versus ignoring the issue and, more often than not, decide it’s not worth the trouble. There are two types of people – givers and takers. Sometimes you can be both depending on the situation or phase in your life. But if you’re always complaining or griping and always doing the taking, then maybe you need to start looking at your life. If no one is giving to you, look at what you’re harvesting. Give and you will get. It’s wrong to do wrong. It’s equally wrong to do nothing if something needs to be done.
“Do to others whatever you would like them to do to you. This is the essence of all that is taught in the law and the prophets.â€-Matthew 7:12 (NLT)
4) Respond with action. It’s not enough to just be alert and show interest. You have to do something about the troubling issue. Show your faith by taking action. Show you care by not just praying for the person but by doing tangible things to help. If they need clothes, give them clothes. If they need food, feed them. Will it cost you? Yes, probably. But it’s worth it.
Accept God’s gift to you of forgiveness by asking Jesus to live inside you. Memorize this verse: “Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.â€-John 13:35 (NLT). Respond with compassion to your neighbors who need help. Show you care by giving to the Come Together Offering.