One night this winter I was out walking my dog when another dog came running up to us out of nowhere. She was friendly and kept trying unsuccessfully to get my senior dog to play with her. She wasn’t going to give up and ended up following us home, much to my elder dog’s chagrin.
I let the dog inside the house so I could read the tags on her collar. Fortunately, she was microchipped and we were able to be put in contact with her owner.
And there was something about the owner. Through our numerous but brief conversations that night involving getting the dog back, he left an impression on both me and my husband. He was friendly. Really friendly. What struck us the most was how he asked both of us our names and made a point of using them frequently in conversation. It was strange that such a small thing left us feeling so positive. We both commented later that night on how different the guy was. How personable. How sincere.
The next day I walked by the dog’s house in the daylight and saw the truck that was parked in the driveway. There was one of those fish symbols on it. Of course I know that anyone, even a non-believer could put a fish on his car and it wouldn’t mean much, but all I could think of was what a tremendous witness this guy was to the Christian faith. Even if he wasn’t really a Christian, if he had the same impact on everyone that he met, even in brief exchanges, what a positive impression people could have of Christ followers!
I know that I for one am going to attempt to adopt this practice. Imagine if we all did? If we introduced ourselves, asked others their names, and made a point of remembering them and using them in conversation? Even the non-believers in our midst would wonder, “What’s different about them?â€
And maybe, just maybe, they’d want it.